Usage Note
Selbstmitleid is almost always used critically — to wallow in Selbstmitleid (im Selbstmitleid schwelgen) is to be self-indulgently sorry for oneself. It is distinguished from legitimate grief by its self-reinforcing, inactive quality.
Examples
"Statt im Selbstmitleid zu versinken, nutzte er die Niederlage als Lernchance."
Natural Translation
Instead of sinking into self-pity, he used the defeat as a learning opportunity.
Literal Translation
Instead in-the self-pity to sink, used he the defeat as learning-opportunity.
Related Words
- Abgestumpftheit emotional numbness, blunted sensitivity
- Abneigung aversion, dislike, antipathy
- Anmut grace, gracefulness, charm
- Aufgewühltheit emotional turmoil, being churned up
- Bangigkeit anxiety, apprehension, fearful unease
- Bedrängnis distress, straits, predicament
- Bedrömmeltheit stunned, dazed emotional numbness
- Bedrücktheit oppressive heaviness of spirit, dejected low mood
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